i have some friends that...do questionable things that make me think that i shouldn't be around them. recently, one of them sent me a pm saying that they were crying, so of course i was concerned about it. then she tells me that she was crying because of a story she read, and she sends me the link and tells me to read up to chapter 25 to understand why. so i decided i would skim through it some time after tomorrow when i have a more flexible schedule since this thing she wants me to read would most likely take me several hours to get through.

then today, i looked into the guild that we're in and saw that one of the threads was updated with new posts, so i went and skimmed through it. i didn't expect anything special, but i was a bit shocked with what i saw. basically she was talking to one other person, and she said she wouldn't talk or rp with me unless i read what she sent. on the other hand, she said she wouldn't use the same threat on the other person she was talking to so they're still cool with each other.

so where does that leave me standing? i know she likes that guy (almost as a crush), but to treat her other friends by threatening them into doing things in order for them to remain friends with her is just horrendous in my opinion. i'm a doormat? if i don't do what she wants she'll wipe crap on me?

eeeyaaaahhh...i don't think i'm going to stay friends with this person if i'm just going to get threatened into doing things in order to keep the relationship.



currently, me and my bf are fighting over who's going to pay for what when we meet. he wants to pay for my stuff when i visit (eg movies, parks, etc.). but i'm opposed to it and i'm saying i should pay for it. we're cool, other than fighting about money issues lolol x'D. we are odd...lolz x'D. i think a normal couple, they would 'want' the other person to pay for them, not the other way around.

(*too lazy to change the mood emote on the journal*)

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edit: here's the convo thus far (previously she was talking about a guy who was standing outside her window and she sent her pack of dogs on the guy, one of them bit the guy---and she was also talking about that story she sent me to read. so this is where it picks up)~

her: No I recalled him with the clicker.
DAMN!!! this story is REALLY good

him: uh-huh
because someone got eaten?

her: you'd have to read it to know what I mean. I'm MAKING Te read it. if she doesn't i'll never forgive her and i'll never talk to or rp with her again. v.v

him: owh
thats er...threatening..
-runs-
>.<

her: Not to you. I'll still talk to you Ki-chan

him: geh.
huh
wad?
@.@

her: lol never mind *hugs you and smiles*

me: wow..that's just... =__=...

do you normally threaten your friends like this? =A=

her: yes I do hun. So don't feel bad have you read them yet? *has finished already*

me: *moves away from ai* =____=

soooooo ~ what's ki up to today? OuO


---so i'm pretty much not responding to her, and she keeps asking me if i read that thing. the more she asks, the more i feel like i shouldn't read it.

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another edit! 8'D: well she kept pestering me about it and the guy finally caved in and told me to go read it as well. after staring at the thing for a few more minutes, i decided to make my exit. this is what i actually typed into the thread:

@ai: you know, i would have read it after today if you had left the topic alone, since i've been busy the last few days trying to cram-watch these class videos before they expire, and that stuff you sent me would have taken out a huge chunk of my time since i'm a slow reader. so i was saving it for when i had a schedule that was more flexible. but then i saw that threat you posted...that didn't sit too well with me.

honestly, i refuse to accept that type of shit from anyone, even my friends, unless they were joking about it. so yes, i got pissed. and now i'm even more pissed cuz you're still pestering me about it.

so flip fuck, and screw you---oh, btw, this is for independence day and my birthday as well, also done for those other people that dislike the way you treat your friends too *sets off some fireworks early and then gives a 'screw you' salute before exiting*